Let's face it, finding a good relationship is not like buying a lottery ticket. It's not based on luck and it's certainly not easy. It involves effort - a lot of effort - but it's worth it! In his honest, down-to-earth style, author Otto Haughland draws a blueprint for women to better understand men, and for men to better understand themselves. Insightful, humerous and light-hearted, he cleverly categorizes the various types of daters: from the Scud Missile dater to the Velcro dater. His suggestions for overcoming the bariers that keep us all from meeting the right person are invaluable. Otto Haugland has been a motivational speaker, dating consultant and relationship expert for the past ten years. He has a particularly strong following in the Northwest, where he has adressed many Christian and religious conferences. The thirty-eight year-old author received his degree from the University of Washington. Julie Schailer has built a career as a stage and television actress. After majoring in theatre at Layola Marymount University, she performed in a variety of stage and Director's Guild projects, as well as voice-overs for industrials, commercials and animation.